Thank God, I met an extreme professional and nice doctor and it turned out he was the head of the clinic. After listening to my problem he asked me to have a psychology visit in the clinic. I went for the visit and it turned out to be a miracle to my problem.
The pretty nice psychologist listened to me and taught me a way to relax and it helps me tremendously. When I was relaxed and shift my attention away from my left throat and ear area, the stress, pressure and pain was very much reduced. She asked me to do three times a day, whenever I feel the pressure and pain is unbearable I will do the relaxation exercise. After finishing the exercise, I feel much better.
I am so glad that I have a way to manage the problem and hope I will slowly get better. My left throat and ear area, the mussels and the nerves are very much damaged by the persistent irritation from the bone graft for the past 8 months. Now, I need time to let them rest and heal gradually.